By Lawrence Odoom/Phalonzy
Renowned marriage counselor Mr. Effah Werehene has condemned the growing trend of couples taking private marital disputes to radio and television stations, describing the practice as “an act of immaturity” that undermines the sanctity of matrimony.
Mr. Werehene argued that individuals who resort to the airwaves to litigate domestic discord lack the emotional maturity required for marriage. “Individuals who resort to the media for solutions to their marital issues demonstrate immaturity and are not suited for marriage,” he asserted.
The counselor cautioned that broadcasting intimate marital strife inflicts far-reaching societal harm, particularly by sowing disillusionment among prospective couples. “Marriage-related matters should not be discussed publicly due to the severe implications it may have on society, including diminishing others’ interest in marriage,” he explained.
He emphasized that every union is beset by its own peculiar challenges, and weaponizing those challenges for public consumption is both reckless and corrosive. “Each marriage faces unique challenges, and these challenges should not be aired in the media, as doing so may discourage others from entering into matrimony.”
Mr. Werehene also took aim at media personalities who preside over such sensationalized broadcasts, questioning their expertise and judgment. “Those who oversee discussions of marital problems on radio and television stations are also lacking in maturity, possessing minimal knowledge in addressing marriage-related issues,” he charged.
He warned that publicizing marital disputes invariably invites disgrace upon the families involved. “Addressing marital concerns publicly can lead to disgrace for the families involved,” he noted.
Outlining the legitimate framework for resolving marital conflicts, Counselor Werehene stressed that marriages are underpinned by established support structures including family elders, professional counselors, and legal practitioners.
“Marriages are overseen by certain individuals, such as family members of the spouses, counselors, lawyers, among others. Consequently, any marital issues that arise should be managed by these individuals,” he said. “Should these efforts prove unsuccessful, it may lead to the dissolution of the marriage.”
He was unequivocal that broadcasting private grievances is wholly outside the accepted protocol. “The process of resolving marital issues does not involve broadcasting on radio or television stations. Therefore, it is inadvisable to use media as a platform to address private marital matters.”